Funerals and memorials
Folks aren't always aware of the choices available. Here are a few things to consider.
Amongst what is often an emotional challenging time, there are often a number of practical things to be done. It can feel overwhelming and like everything needs to be done at once.
A ceremony can take place anywhere you wish. Some choose to hold ceremonies at a crematorium or cemetery. Others may feel a natural burial ground is the right place. Some may choose a direct cremation. An option could also be to hold a ceremony somewhere connected to their loved one, perhaps somewhere meaningful to them, indoors or outdooors.
Keep with you, that a ceremony celebrating your loved ones life can happen at any time that feels right to you. I am flexible.
You can contact me directly, or if you are using one, via your chosen funeral director.
Some helpful sites:
naturaldeath.org.uk “Lifting the Lid on Death and Dying”
goodlifedeathgrief.org.uk/ Helping Scotland to help each other
funerals.scot/ free support for those experiencing loss, and support and information with end of life and funeral planning.
pushingupthedaisies.org.uk practical information, advice and legal rights immediately after someone dies.
funeralguide.co.uk/ to compare prices of funeral directors.
Each of us is unique and so it makes sense that the way we say goodbye; the way our lives are marked by our loved ones is as well. Ceremony and associated rituals can be an important part of this. A pause in time, to stop, and acknowledge the person we have lost in a way that respects the way they lived their live.
Being with folks through emotional and difficult times is something I have a lot of experience with. It's my honour to be there for you and your family through this time and to help to create a warm, gentle and supportive space for memories, connection and shared reflection.
We can chat together about what your loved one brought to life, to find the words you’d like to share, as well as any personal touches you may wish to include. This might include readings, music, rituals (like candle lighting or laying of flowers or lavender), words from loved ones and time for reflection. We’ll create a tribute together which is fitting and personal.
